Back in the days or IRC and ICQ, I’d only ever type haha when I genuinely found something funny. A whole string of it would ensue if I thought something was really hilarious. Then, the LOLs and ROFLs came along, and the hahas dwindled, saving them only when I felt an ROFLMAO wasn’t a good enough response to a pure comedic moment.
Aside: I’m honestly quite annoyed that language today has been watered down to mere abbreviations. Apparently, it is more important to type fast than to convey meaning?
Over the years, I became more aware of my own usage of haha and I realised that this seemingly insignificant word (if it even is a word) can also connote feelings of condescension and frustration, even though it would almost always be interpreted as an expression of laughter by the other party. Here’s how I’ve incorporated the humble haha:
1. That’s freaking hilarious! I’m totally in guffaws here!
2. I get you’re trying to make a joke, and I don’t exactly find it funny, but I’d laugh with you anyway.
3. I can’t believe you’re foolish enough to believe that, so I’m totally laughing at you, rather than with you.
4. I’m not really paying attention, but I’m saying “haha”, cos you said “haha” first.
5. Wow. You actually said something so un-politically correct? *nervous*
6. I really don’t want to ruffle any feathers here… But I need to say it anyway.
7. You’re being a complete idiot. But I can’t be bothered to argue with you.
8. In your face, suckerrrr!
9. Something is seriously bothering me but I just don’t want to talk about it. So let’s move on, shall we?
10. I really don’t know what else to say to you, so let’s hope this conversation ends soon.
How do you use the haha?







